Most couples with kids don’t argue about love. They argue about invisible work.

Most couples with kids don’t argue about love.
They argue about invisible work.

One of you packs the lunches.
The other one stays up late folding tiny clothes.
Someone fixes the stroller.
Someone remembers the doctor’s appointment.

But when those efforts go unnoticed, the weight starts to feel one-sided.
And love begins to feel like exhaustion.

That’s why I use the quiet effort app.
It’s free, and it’s already helping couples notice the small things that keep family life moving.

I log what I do, and what my partner does for me.
Then I say thank you in real life — before resentment has a chance to build.

It’s not about scoreboards.
It’s about balance.
It’s about keeping love warm while raising a family together.

Download the quiet effort app today. Free on iPhone and Android.