Most couples don’t break up because love is gone. They break up because they feel unseen.

Most couples don’t break up because love is gone.
They break up because they feel unseen.
One person cooks, the other cleans, someone stays up late listening — and none of it gets noticed.
That’s when resentment builds.
The quiet effort app is free, and it’s already helping people notice the small acts that keep love alive.
I log what my partner does for me, and what I do for them.
Then I say thank you — face to face, while it still matters.
It’s not about keeping score. It’s about growing together.
Download the quiet effort app today — on iOS and Android.

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