Our Philosophy: Strength Through Scars, Not Perfection

At Healing Mates, we believe healing isn’t about hiding what hurts—it’s about growing through it. Just like muscles grow stronger by repairing small tears, we see every scar as proof of survival and transformation. Resilience doesn’t mean getting it right every time. It means continuing, honestly and imperfectly.

"You’re not broken. You’re becoming." — Healing Mates

Why We Exist

We live in a world where effort is often unseen, and connection can feel more curated than real. At Healing Mates, we’re building spaces that restore honesty, appreciation, and emotional presence—quietly, consistently, and with care.

Everything we create is grounded in the belief that people deserve to be seen as they are—not sized up, filtered, or rushed to fit an ideal. Our work is shaped by lived experience, built to last, and guided by values that won’t be compromised for clicks or quick wins.

The 77th Anniversary: Built for Commitment

The 77th Anniversary is a dating app for people who still believe in showing up—fully, honestly, and with intention. It's designed to reflect how people actually behave, not just how they present themselves.

We start with Table Chats—group conversations where you can see real interaction unfold before moving into private chats. No swiping. No pretending. Just presence.

Our Reflecto system shows how someone communicates, how consistent they are, who they’ve liked (and why), and which chats they’ve left. You can’t see your own data, so the system stays honest—not performative.

You also set your Top 3 Non-Negotiables—clear, essential values that help avoid mismatches from the start. Everything about the app is built to reduce ghosting, remove the guesswork, and reward integrity over image.

“Before dating burns you out, try something built for people who mean what they say.”

quiet effort: Noticing What Keeps Us Together

quiet effort is a simple app that helps families, partners, and housemates recognize the quiet, everyday acts of care that keep things running—and say thanks in real life.

It’s not a planner. Not a scoreboard. Just a space to log what you’ve already done and gently help others see it—without competition or guilt. Because when care goes unseen, resentment builds. But when it’s noticed, appreciation grows.

Simple enough for kids, meaningful enough for adults, and designed to build stronger homes—one small act at a time.

Looking Ahead

We’re just getting started. At Healing Mates, we’re committed to creating emotionally honest, socially conscious, and long-lasting ways to reconnect people—to each other and to what matters.

Whether it's through future tools, stories, or services, our path forward will always reflect the same core belief: healing doesn't have to be loud to be powerful—and sustainability begins with being true to our values at every step.